Wednesday 7 February 2018

#Friendzoned: शायद यही प्यार है।




Pyaar dosti hai!

Agar woh meri sab se achchi dost nahin ban sakti, 
to main usse kabhi pyar kar hi nahi sakta,
kyunki dosti bina toh pyar hota hi nahin.
Simple, pyaar dosti hai!


What an absolutely delightful thought, Rahul! Pyaar dosti hai. Love is friendship.
-Ms. Briganza from Kuch Kuch Hota Hai.

Do you find these lines cheesy?

Yes?
Super Yes?
Such drama, haan?

These lines seems cheesy, friendship is getting underrated, friendzoned is more like an abuse and we are really trying our asses off in proving 'Ek Ladka aur Ek ladki dost ho sakte hai'. 

Really?

Oh no! I am not denying the fact that a girl and a boy can't be friends but such drama over such an over-hyped trending so-called slang called #Friendzoned is not justified either.

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DISCLAMER
I do NOT believe that every friendship should turn into a love story. I understand the sentiments of 'HUM SACH ME BEST FRIENDS HI HAI' and I also understand the fact that you sometimes fall in love with your best friends (Be it mutual or Ae Dil Hai Mushkil kinda), this post is just a though or belief that it is okay to be friends, it is okay to be friendzoned, let's not make fun of it, let's try and respect what ever it is. Friendship or Love. Whatever. Let's respect it! <3


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So, I proudly being a Kuch Kuch Hota Hai fan, again proudly in favour of (at this moment) 'Pyaar Dosti Hai' present you this. Read and love me but do not judge me! <3

Vaise to tum saalo se dost the,
par achanak ek din baat hote hote raat kab beet gai,
aur tumhe pata hi nahi chala,
to shayad yahi pyaar hai!

Agar use kisi aur ke sath dekhkar bhi takleef nahi hoti,
agar uske ex-affairs tumhe hurt nahi karte,
gudgudaate hai,
kabhi hasaate to kabhi rulate hai,
agar uski buri adatein ab tumhari adatein ban chuki hai,
to shayad yahi pyaar hai!

Agar ab akele rehkar bhi akelapan ka ehsaah nahi hota,
kyuki pata hai koi hai jo humesha hai,
samne na sahi, par hai,
to shayad yahi pyaar hai!

agar har pal saath hone ke baad bhi,
sath me tumhare pictures kam hai,
aur yaadein zaada,
Baatein kam hai par stories zaada,
koochi-koo-panaa kam hai jhagde zaada,
aur kabhi kabhi shor kam hai, aur shaanti zaada
to shayad yahi pyaar hai!

Agar uski uljhi zulfo ko suljhaane se pehle tum uski uljhano ko sulajhana chahte ho,
agar tum bekhauf apna pagalpan,
aur vo apna har bachkaana sapna tumhare saame zaahir karne me sharam nahi khati.
agar thand me razai ki jagah,
ek cup chai ko ek-ek karke saath milkar piya hai tumne,
Agar bina bole jaan lete ho na ki dil dukha hai dusre ka,
agar uska har aansu tumhare saamne aakar beh jaata hai,
agar vo apna har jhut tumhare samne aakar sach keh jaata hai,
agar tumhari muskaan ki vajah uski muskaan se zaada,
uski neend me bolne ki aadat hai,

toh shayad, 
shayad? 
shayad, nahi!

Yeh ab dosti se kuch zaada,
Shayad pyaar hai.

Aur agar apni dosti me ye pyaar tumhe mil chuka hai,
to use thaam lo, rok lo, gale laga lo aur jaha mauka mile bas haath pakadkar, kass ke jakad kar, use keh do ki tumhe usse kitna pyaar hai.

Kyuki aisi mohhobat se mulaakaat hone me zindagi ka ek kafi lamba arsa beet jaata hai,
tumhe mila hai, naseeb me sabke aisa pyaar nahi aata hai! <3


(जी हाँ भाइयो और बहनों, poetry inspiration: Shayad Wo Pyaar Nahi-Yahya Bootwala)
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5 comments:

  1. Very nice and the best line - Agar uski uljhi zulfo ko suljhaane se pehle tum uski uljhano ko sulajhana chahte ho, 😊✌️

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    1. Shukriya. I like the entire last paragraph. And, to not forget, the GIF. 😂❤️

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    2. For your last paragraph and the GIF ❤️
      #PyaarDostiHai

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  2. Indeed, a very Bollywoody thought.
    I almost felt like I was reading a 'Kuch Kuch Hota hai' script in verse of a poem.
    And, the write-up is written just the way you are- Simple and Bold. <3
    Nevertheless, I have my own disparity with the frame of reference stated here but that doesn't matter here!
    You go, girl! Write your heart out, like always! :)

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    1. The one who has never fallen for someone (Mani, ofcorce), be it a friend of anyone will certainly have less of references of how people fall for each other. And, I am glad that someone who has actually fallen for someone is not agreeing with my efforts. Lol!

      PS: I somehow imagine myself in a park too! Or a CCD, maybe.

      Thanks for appreciating anyways. ❤️

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